Anti-Human Trafficking Activist Deondriea Cantrice | Unmute the Silence

Activist Anti-human trafficking advocate

Trafficking hides in silence. She's done being quiet.

Deondriea Cantrice is the mother of a sex trafficking survivor and the founder of Unmute the Silence. She takes the conversation most people avoid and turns it into the one that protects our communities.

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Deondriea Cantrice, anti-human trafficking activist and founder of Unmute the Silence

Why she will not be quiet

For almost ten years, trafficking had her daughter. For most of 2020, she didn't know if her daughter was alive.

Deondriea didn't choose this cause. It came to her family. While the world locked its doors in 2020, she spent most of that year waiting for a phone call, a message, any sign at all, not knowing whether her child was still alive.

That is the side of trafficking almost no one talks about. The mother who sleeps with her phone face-up on the nightstand. The family carrying a shame that was never theirs. The silence that keeps good people from asking the right questions until it's too late.

Her daughter's story belongs to her daughter. What Deondriea carries is a mother's side of it, and a promise: no other family should have to learn what she learned the way she learned it.

2020January

A year of days. Most of them spent not knowing.

Shame belongs to the people who exploit. Never to the ones who were exploited, or the families who love them.

What human trafficking actually is

It doesn't always look like chains. It usually looks like control.

Human trafficking is the use of force, fraud, or coercion to make someone perform commercial sex or labor. And under U.S. federal law, any commercial sex act involving a minor is trafficking. No force required. No exceptions.

01ForceTurn to see it
Force

Violence, threats, confinement. The kind most people picture, and the kind least often used alone.

02FraudTurn to see it
Fraud

A job that doesn't exist. A modeling offer. A future together. A promise built to be broken.

03CoercionTurn to see it
Coercion

Debt that never shrinks. A phone, an ID, or money held by someone else. Love used as a leash.

Myth versus truth

Most of what we believe about trafficking, somebody told us.

Traffickers count on our wrong ideas. Every myth below is a hiding place. Tap a card to take it away.

01Myth“Victims are snatched by strangers.”Tap for the truth
01TruthMost are recruited by someone they know or trust: a boyfriend, a friend, a relative, an employer.Myth, retired.
02Myth“It doesn't happen here.”Tap for the truth
02TruthIt happens in suburbs, small towns, and big cities, in every state. Including yours.Myth, retired.
03Myth“Trafficking means crossing a border.”Tap for the truth
03TruthNo movement is required. Many people are trafficked in their own hometown.Myth, retired.
04Myth“She could just leave.”Tap for the truth
04TruthControl runs on fear, debt, threats, shame, and love. Locks are rarely needed.Myth, retired.
05Myth“She chose this.”Tap for the truth
05TruthA child cannot consent to commercial sex. Under federal law, it is trafficking. Period.Myth, retired.
06Myth“It only happens to girls.”Tap for the truth
06TruthBoys, men, and LGBTQ+ youth are trafficked too, and are often the least likely to be identified.Myth, retired.

Sold in silence

Black girls and women are overrepresented among victims and underrepresented in the search.

When a Black girl goes missing, she is too often labeled a runaway instead of a possible victim. That label is a belief. And beliefs decide who gets searched for, who gets believed, and who gets brought home.

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of confirmed sex trafficking victims in a U.S. Department of Justice study were Black

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of the U.S. population is Black

Source: Bureau of Justice Statistics, Characteristics of Suspected Human Trafficking Incidents, 2008 to 2010, among confirmed cases where race was known.

Know the signs

You may be the only one paying attention. Trust what you notice.

Tap anything you've seen in a young person's life. One sign isn't proof. Several together are worth a call.

Advocacy speaking

She doesn't give a statistics lecture. She gives your audience a reason to never look away again.

Deondriea speaks as an advocate and as a mother. Audiences leave knowing how trafficking really begins, what it looks like in their own community, and exactly what to do when they see it.

Talk 01

The Human Side of Human Trafficking

Beyond the headlines and the stock photos. How ordinary trafficking looks at the start, and what families, schools, and communities can do before it's too late.

Talk 02

Romeo Pimp, Juliette Victim

How love becomes the lure. The myths and grooming tactics that hide in plain sight, and how parents, educators, and young people can spot them.

Talk 03

Sold in Silence

The impact of trafficking on Black women and girls: why they are overrepresented among victims, underprotected by systems, and what it takes to change that.

For schools and universities, churches, sororities and civic organizations, corporations, law enforcement, and community events.

Invite Deondriea to speak

Unmute the Silence

She founded it so no family has to face this alone.

Unmute the Silence is campaign Deondriea founded to break the quiet that lets trafficking grow. Deondriea also serves on the board of directors of New Friends New Life in Dallas, an organization serving survivors of trafficking and sexual exploitation.

01Educate

Teach families, schools, and communities how trafficking really starts, so they recognize it sooner.

02Advocate

Push for policies and laws that protect victims and hold exploiters accountable.

03Empower

Stand with survivors and their families as they rebuild lives on their own terms.

Your voice is the antidote

You don't need a title to protect a child. You need to stop being quiet.

Choose what you'll do this week. Every promise turns up the volume.

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Questions about human trafficking and Deondriea's advocacy

What is human trafficking?

Human trafficking is the use of force, fraud, or coercion to compel a person to perform commercial sex or labor. Under U.S. federal law, any commercial sex act involving a minor is trafficking, whether or not force, fraud, or coercion is present. Trafficking does not require crossing a border, and most victims are recruited by someone they know or trust.

Who is Deondriea Cantrice as an anti-human trafficking activist?

Deondriea Cantrice is the mother of a sex trafficking survivor. Her daughter was trafficked for almost ten years, and during much of 2020 Deondriea did not know whether her daughter was alive. She is the founder of the nonprofit Unmute the Silence, serves on the board of directors of New Friends New Life in Dallas, and speaks nationally on human trafficking awareness and prevention.

What is Unmute the Silence?

Unmute the Silence is the nonprofit Deondriea Cantrice founded to break the silence that allows human trafficking to grow. Its work focuses on three areas: educating families, schools, and communities; advocating for laws and policies that protect victims; and empowering survivors and their families. Learn more at unmutethesilence.org.

What are the warning signs of human trafficking?

Common warning signs include a new, older boyfriend or friend who controls where a young person goes; someone else holding their phone, ID, or money; new clothes, phones, or cash with no clear source; withdrawal from family, friends, or school; rehearsed answers or someone speaking for them; and new fear or anxiety. One sign is not proof, but several together are worth a call to the hotline.

What should I do if I think someone is being trafficked?

Do not confront the suspected trafficker and do not try to rescue the person yourself. Call the National Human Trafficking Hotline at 1-888-373-7888 or text 233733. It is confidential and available 24/7. If anyone is in immediate danger, call 911.

Does Deondriea speak about human trafficking?

Yes. Deondriea offers three advocacy talks: The Human Side of Human Trafficking; Romeo Pimp, Juliette Victim, on myths and grooming; and Sold in Silence, on the impact of trafficking on Black women and girls. She speaks to schools, churches, sororities, civic organizations, corporations, law enforcement, and community events. Invite her at deondriea.com/book-deondriea.

Why are Black girls and women disproportionately affected by sex trafficking?

In a U.S. Department of Justice study of confirmed sex trafficking cases where race was known, 40 percent of victims were Black, compared with about 13 percent of the U.S. population. Missing Black girls are often labeled runaways rather than possible victims, which can delay searches and protection.

How can I help end human trafficking?

Save the hotline number, learn the warning signs and teach them to young people, talk with your children about who they meet online, bring trafficking awareness to your school, church, or workplace, and support survivor-serving organizations such as Unmute the Silence and New Friends New Life.

Silence has had enough time. Use your voice.

National Human Trafficking Hotline: call 1-888-373-7888 or text 233733, 24/7. In immediate danger, call 911.

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