The Human Side of Human Trafficking
Beyond the headlines and the stock photos. How ordinary trafficking looks at the start, and what families, schools, and communities can do before it's too late.
Activist Anti-human trafficking advocate
Deondriea Cantrice is the mother of a sex trafficking survivor and the founder of Unmute the Silence. She takes the conversation most people avoid and turns it into the one that protects our communities.
Need help now? Call 1-888-373-7888 or text 233733. In immediate danger, call 911.
Every sentence that keeps us quiet keeps a trafficker comfortable.
Why she will not be quiet
Deondriea didn't choose this cause. It came to her family. While the world locked its doors in 2020, she spent most of that year waiting for a phone call, a message, any sign at all, not knowing whether her child was still alive.
That is the side of trafficking almost no one talks about. The mother who sleeps with her phone face-up on the nightstand. The family carrying a shame that was never theirs. The silence that keeps good people from asking the right questions until it's too late.
Her daughter's story belongs to her daughter. What Deondriea carries is a mother's side of it, and a promise: no other family should have to learn what she learned the way she learned it.
A year of days. Most of them spent not knowing.
Shame belongs to the people who exploit. Never to the ones who were exploited, or the families who love them.
What human trafficking actually is
Human trafficking is the use of force, fraud, or coercion to make someone perform commercial sex or labor. And under U.S. federal law, any commercial sex act involving a minor is trafficking. No force required. No exceptions.
Violence, threats, confinement. The kind most people picture, and the kind least often used alone.
A job that doesn't exist. A modeling offer. A future together. A promise built to be broken.
Debt that never shrinks. A phone, an ID, or money held by someone else. Love used as a leash.
Myth versus truth
Traffickers count on our wrong ideas. Every myth below is a hiding place. Tap a card to take it away.
Sold in silence
When a Black girl goes missing, she is too often labeled a runaway instead of a possible victim. That label is a belief. And beliefs decide who gets searched for, who gets believed, and who gets brought home.
of confirmed sex trafficking victims in a U.S. Department of Justice study were Black
of the U.S. population is Black
Source: Bureau of Justice Statistics, Characteristics of Suspected Human Trafficking Incidents, 2008 to 2010, among confirmed cases where race was known.
Know the signs
Tap anything you've seen in a young person's life. One sign isn't proof. Several together are worth a call.
Advocacy speaking
Deondriea speaks as an advocate and as a mother. Audiences leave knowing how trafficking really begins, what it looks like in their own community, and exactly what to do when they see it.
Beyond the headlines and the stock photos. How ordinary trafficking looks at the start, and what families, schools, and communities can do before it's too late.
How love becomes the lure. The myths and grooming tactics that hide in plain sight, and how parents, educators, and young people can spot them.
The impact of trafficking on Black women and girls: why they are overrepresented among victims, underprotected by systems, and what it takes to change that.
For schools and universities, churches, sororities and civic organizations, corporations, law enforcement, and community events.
Invite Deondriea to speakUnmute the Silence
Unmute the Silence is campaign Deondriea founded to break the quiet that lets trafficking grow. Deondriea also serves on the board of directors of New Friends New Life in Dallas, an organization serving survivors of trafficking and sexual exploitation.
Teach families, schools, and communities how trafficking really starts, so they recognize it sooner.
Push for policies and laws that protect victims and hold exploiters accountable.
Stand with survivors and their families as they rebuild lives on their own terms.
Your voice is the antidote
Choose what you'll do this week. Every promise turns up the volume.
Silence
Human trafficking is the use of force, fraud, or coercion to compel a person to perform commercial sex or labor. Under U.S. federal law, any commercial sex act involving a minor is trafficking, whether or not force, fraud, or coercion is present. Trafficking does not require crossing a border, and most victims are recruited by someone they know or trust.
Deondriea Cantrice is the mother of a sex trafficking survivor. Her daughter was trafficked for almost ten years, and during much of 2020 Deondriea did not know whether her daughter was alive. She is the founder of the nonprofit Unmute the Silence, serves on the board of directors of New Friends New Life in Dallas, and speaks nationally on human trafficking awareness and prevention.
Unmute the Silence is the nonprofit Deondriea Cantrice founded to break the silence that allows human trafficking to grow. Its work focuses on three areas: educating families, schools, and communities; advocating for laws and policies that protect victims; and empowering survivors and their families. Learn more at unmutethesilence.org.
Common warning signs include a new, older boyfriend or friend who controls where a young person goes; someone else holding their phone, ID, or money; new clothes, phones, or cash with no clear source; withdrawal from family, friends, or school; rehearsed answers or someone speaking for them; and new fear or anxiety. One sign is not proof, but several together are worth a call to the hotline.
Do not confront the suspected trafficker and do not try to rescue the person yourself. Call the National Human Trafficking Hotline at 1-888-373-7888 or text 233733. It is confidential and available 24/7. If anyone is in immediate danger, call 911.
Yes. Deondriea offers three advocacy talks: The Human Side of Human Trafficking; Romeo Pimp, Juliette Victim, on myths and grooming; and Sold in Silence, on the impact of trafficking on Black women and girls. She speaks to schools, churches, sororities, civic organizations, corporations, law enforcement, and community events. Invite her at deondriea.com/book-deondriea.
In a U.S. Department of Justice study of confirmed sex trafficking cases where race was known, 40 percent of victims were Black, compared with about 13 percent of the U.S. population. Missing Black girls are often labeled runaways rather than possible victims, which can delay searches and protection.
Save the hotline number, learn the warning signs and teach them to young people, talk with your children about who they meet online, bring trafficking awareness to your school, church, or workplace, and support survivor-serving organizations such as Unmute the Silence and New Friends New Life.
National Human Trafficking Hotline: call 1-888-373-7888 or text 233733, 24/7. In immediate danger, call 911.